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I kinda have difficult times of control issues as usual, yes!

Dr Gary thank you for sharing a kind thought about forgiveness and especially the clear message of self-forgiveness. Here @gratefulgrans next time when we discover a great-grandparent lonely in need of encouragement... We'd like to use that same message of a peace of mind comes with forgiveness... "Take it one moment at a time." and "Work at feeling better about yourself." Yes, it's a good day to decide to change and make it a great day. -j-

God bro. I honestly don’t believe in karma. It’s a “feel good” we give ourselves to excuse some else’s bullshit

Basically when Bad people do bad things to good people who can't forgive then the Bad people can easily kill good people internally.

I should meet great man

Thank you Dr. Daniel. How should I start the order of videos from the beginning, middle, proceed with the next after this? I'm sure it makes since to start from the beginning but I'm in such bad shape with worrying even if I'll be here a yr from now because life is making me feel hopeless. If I die where will I go yes I'm a good person but what religion is the truth. I'm a ball of confusion. Thank you in advance.

What about when you see them often? I’m triggered every time I see her and get full of rage. It’s like it brings me right back to the beginning.

How do you explain karma if my abusive bully cousin is mocking at people all the time; despite that, many people love her; she is a millionaire now (she married a big fish); her husband celebrates her bullying and she doesn't have a single problem in her life? How do you explain karma?

thank you gary

sure pal , try being 77 and a recent widower with most friends dead and most step family only interested in the money and stuff my late wife did not give them in her will

I love these videos. This is what I need to fill my mind with. Thank you, Doc.

I like the way Theador Roosavelt's personality was portrayed. That's how i want to be.

My former boss was trying to bully me and i just thought that he doesn't know. Eventually, I had enough and told him to back the hell off. I've had to do this a few times to people. Unfortunately, I've had to knock people out as well. I don't like to that, but I will if I have to.

I am fine with my own company and being alone, and i know i have alot of people who care for me. However, i am dealing with a health condition which impacts my energy levels....i get neuro fatique which is horrible....i have friends who live over am hour away, and to go visit takes alot out of me, my family are 2 & 1/2 hours away....i have no where to stay if i go visit...and dven to do the trip exhausts me. I have to even budget my energy regarding how many facetime/phone conversations i have. As a result, i am alone/isolated the majority of the time ...and i cannot go to work, which i know is a big part if peoples social connections. An afternoon of conversation can wipe me out. I feel lonely. If it were up to my mind id be going here, there and everywhere to interact in life.....but i cant due to my condition. What would you advise to combat this lonliness and sadness?

Bad things happen to good people and sometimes good things happen to bad people. I get it. But what do I do when I wish that bad things would happen to bad people?

That's the problem, it ended up way too many to try be funny, to be comic, comic to the point they ended up being the comic bully we all know about, when many things should be taken seriously. More that do these "humors" things are also the ones that most of the time do it from a comfort zone. But now the uncomfortable took the stage, and many laugh like morons when presented a serious matter. Sure, if you want to end up a joke, don't take yourself serious. Yeah, most people don't know what being objective means, you got that right. I get what the interlocutor in this video says. But he does throw some bs at one point.

I hear what you are saying...but if good people let bad people go un punished...the BAD WILL become stronger.

Still a relevant video. Thanks with a sub/like. I think I see your point. An effort has to be made to 'challenge' negativetiy in the moment to end the cycle.

Yes, it is true that nobody cares whatsoever.

thank you

I used to feel so alone in relationships and friendships during my 20’s. Once I got older, I became so much more comfortable with myself and worked on myself..and now, I don’t feel alone at all. Great video even tho it’s 12-13 years old. It still holds up

What if it's not that I'm focusing on what the person did to me, but more that it's just always there in the background. Not something that I'm actively thinking about or whatever, but just something that has devastated so hard that it's always there?

Hi Dr Gary I kinda stumbled on your videos yesterday and I really like the common sense you use. I came to the understanding a while back that what others do is really none of my business, whether it's family, friends, neighbors or anyone. I know many people that stay stuck trying to fix others just so they don't have to look at themselves. I have told many that they can't control anyone but themselves and they are wasting their energy. Glad you are here thanks

If you love yourself, you can never really feel alone when you're so called "by yourself". After you learn to love yourself, you may "decide" to go out and try to meet other people and make friends, OR you may just realize that you really don't feel the need to go out and make friends. The vast majority of the time, getting involved with people creates unnecessary problems in your life. It's an "either/or" decision at that point, so the choice is yours.

OHMG,..Don’t EVEN get me started on this. You hit the nail on the head Dr. Daniel!! Entire populations just going through the motions with their noses poked into their smartphones. Unaware of what is happening in this country and the world and how SERIOUS this is. When you have college educated people who don’t even know who the V.P. is…their is something desperately wrong. IMHO, of course. IF we’re even allowed our own opinions anymore…?🤷🏻‍♀️ Large portions of young people who say “I’m tired of living,…what’s the point?” This is NOT GOOD. Far too much to talk about here but,…it’s so GOOD to see that someone out here is paying attention and noticing that our society is basically sleepwalking….but always with their smartphones. 😢 I’m from your generation so,…I have seen the changes over time. It’s both SAD and FRIGHTENING.

So, If life sucks your spouse's cheating on you.Your car just got repoed and somebody just stole your identity.All you need to do according to this video is to drink water

Dr. Gary,…where have you been all my life??😁 You have some great, usable advice and you’re just naturally good at making sense of things to people. Things we don’t think of for ourselves. I’m puzzled as to why you don’t have over a Million subscribers!!😧 There are many other Dr.’s out here who give advice but I usually notice that much of it isn’t really “practical” and much of it is a bunch of ‘word salad’ that gets lost in all of the talk. Thank You so much for your useful, usable advice!! 😊

You absolutely nailed how I feel MOST of the time. 😟 It’s a horrible feeling and way to have to live. A huge part of my other problem is trying to live every day in physical pain around the clock. I’m alive,…but what I’m doing isn’t “living”,…it’s struggling to get through each day,..only to have the same day EVERY day.

Everytime i try stopping the mental reminders i find that ill never be free of the reminder of his betrayal since his baby with her will never go away now.

Long term loneliness saps the confidence and you become so socially paralised that little or no change can be made...

Talking to Jesus in my mind about troublesome things is helpful - I'd rather do that than a human therapist for sure , talking to good understanding folk is good too and meditation is very good

welcome back!!

This is both of my sons, but especially my younger feels lonely. Heartbreaking. I’m thankful that I believe in God and have a spiritual family as well as a physical one.

Great advice. Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤

My head hurts and your talking is more faster😢

26.march 2024 i m 26 years old

Thank you!

It is more like a sensation on chest rather than a thought

thankyou for the useless advice

Thank you!

Can a man be a friend of a woman? I'm a 49 y.o. woman, made a friend who was a 64 y.o. man, and felt good in his company, was authentic, he was too, thought the age difference would rule out any inkling of romantic vibes, I mean surely that would be understood!, but then I found out later that he had hid something from me. I mean maybe men don't discuss their romantic relationships with women friends, but still I felt like I must mean a lot less to him than I thought if he hid this from me. Then two more times this happened. He went away on holiday without telling me, one was out of country. I have since given up on this potential friendship and it makes me sad as it was the only one. He made me feel like a woman on the side, saved for later, for just in case, not a friend at all. Well there was a woman too but she ignored my email so I guess she doesn't want to keep contact. She was so friendly at first, off puttingly so. But now, she seems leery of me. : ( So, no friends here. Nobody I vibe with.

Not helpful, need higher level of help

When?

Dr. Gary, for President.

Gee, Dr. Gary, Thank you for sharing some of your wisdom today. I'm 71 and have never looked at opportunity in the way you explained it. I can see opportunity that has come my way recently, when an a childhood friend sent me a letter a couple of weeks ago with a invitation for travel, to his place in NM.

Didn’t help at all. Basically all he says is don’t let the other person live rent free in your head and “to learn” from what happened.

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I Enjoy😊 My 🎉Loneliness With😴 Acceptance. God🌹✋ Gave🕯 me His Company With👏 Blessing's. No😊🕯 Worries.

Thanks man you probably saved a couple people's lives

I feel like you’re the type of person I’d want to stay away from me. It’s the turtle neck man.